Anang Soetomo, 20, warga Desa Selopanggung, Kec. Semen
KEDIRI – Anang Soetomo, 20, warga Desa Selopanggung, Kec. Semen, Kediri, hingga kini harus menderita batin, penuh kebimbangan, dan kebingungan. Sebab, dia memiliki kelamin ganda, laki-laki dan perempuan, yang hingga sekarang belum terselesaikan. Ingin operasinya tuntas, tapi tak punya biaya. Kabar dari RS soal lanjutan operasinya, juga tidak pernah dia dapatkan. Kini, dia juga harus putus sekolah karena tidak ada biaya.
KELAMIN GANDA : Anang Soetomo, bersama ketua RT, Masroil, berharap bisa operasi dan melanjutkan sekolah
Saat kediripost mendatangi rumahnya, dia sedang tampak duduk di kursi bambu. Anang menceritakan bagaimana perjalanan hidupnya dari kecil hingga putus sekolah. “Saya Sudah dari Kecil Mas mempunyai kelamin ganda,”ujarnya dengan nada sedih.
Menurut Anang, dia sempat memeriksakan diri ke RSUD Gambiran terkait kelamin gandanya. Saat itu, dokter menjelaskan bahwa Anang berkecenderungan lebih besar ke laki-laki. Padahal saat itu dia lebih banyak berdandan seperti perempuan, berjilbab, memakai bedak, pakaian perempuan, dan sebagainya. Sekarang, dia sudah lebih banyak memakai pakaian laki-laki dan berdandan seperti laki-laki. “Kata dokter, saya Lebih mengarah ke laki-laki,”ucapnya
Usai pemeriksaan dari RSUD Gambiran, dia sempat dirujuk ke RS dr.Soetomo Surabaya hingga dilakukan operasi dua kali pada 2016 lalu. Tinggal satu kali lagi operasi, untuk menuntaskan dirinya berkelamin laki-laki.
Namun, hingga sekarang dia belum menjalani operasi terakhir itu. Karena tidak ada biaya dan tidak ada kabar lagi dari RSUD dr. Soetomo. Untuk bertanya ke RS, dia juga tidak tahu caranya dan tidak memiliki biaya untuk ke Surabaya. Maklum, orang tuanya hanya petani kecil. “Kata dokter, sebenarnya tinggal kurang satu kali operasi lagi. Tapi belum ada kabar panggilan. Padahal itu operasi yang paling penting,”tandasnya.
Kini, Anang juga tidak melanjutkan sekolah setelah tamat SMPN Semen. Ingin melanjutkan ke SMA, tidak ada biaya. Akhirnya dia setiap hari membantu orang tuanya ke sawah. “Saya sebenarnya masih ingin melanjutkan sekolah mas, tapi keadaan ekonomi tidak memungkinkan,”ucap Anang.
Sementara itu, ketua RT setempat, Masroil, saat ditemui menjelaskan Anang sebelumnya sempat berdandan seperti perempuan. Tetapi setelah operasi, dia sudah berdandan seperti laki-laki. “Dulu itu anaknya berjilbab Mas, Tapi kelakuannya seperti laki-laki”, ujar Masroil.
Masroil menambahkan, Anang adalah anak yang baik, periang dan suka membantu orang tua saat di sawah. Sehingga banyak tetangga yang merasa iba dan mendoakan agar dia bisa segera bisa operasi kelamin ganda. “Saya sangat berharap ada yang bisa membantu anang menghubungkan ke ruma sakit. Karena tinggal satu kali lagi oprasinya. Kasihan, hingga sekarang dia masih belum jelas laki-laki atau perempuan,”tambah Masroil. (sul/mam)
Anang Soetomo, 20, a resident of Selopanggung Village, Kec. Semen, Kediri
Double sex, free of charge, drop out of school
KEDIRI – Anang Soetomo, 20, a resident of Selopanggung Village, Kec. Semen, Kediri, until now has had to suffer mentally, full of doubts, and confusion. This is because he has multiple sexes, male and female, which has not been resolved until now. Want to complete the operation, but have no money. He never got the news from the hospital about the continuation of the operation. Now, he also has to drop out of school because there is no money.
When the kediripost came to his house, he was seen sitting on a bamboo chair with his father, Setu, while chatting here and there. Anang told how his life journey from childhood to drop out of school. “I’ve been from Kecil Mas have multiple genders,” he said sadly.
According to Anang, he had time to go to Gambiran Regional Hospital regarding his double sex. At that time, the doctor explained that Anang tends to be more male. Even though at that time she was mostly dressed like a woman, wearing a headscarf, wearing powder, women’s clothes, and so on. Now, she wears more boy clothes and dresses up like a boy. “Said the doctor, I was more directed towards men,” he said
After being examined by RSUD Gambiran, he was referred to Dr. Soetomo Hospital in Surabaya until he was operated on twice in 2016. Only one more operation, to complete himself and he is a man.
However, until now he has not undergone that last operation. Because there is no money and no more news from dr. Soetomo. To ask the hospital, he also did not know how and did not have the money to go to Surabaya. Understandably, his parents are only small farmers. “The doctor said, actually only one more operation is left. But there’s no word yet. Even though it is the most important operation, “he said.
Now, Anang also does not continue his studies after graduating from SMPN Semen. Want to continue to high school, there is no fee. Finally, every day he helps his parents to the fields. “I actually still want to continue my public school, but the economic situation is not possible,” said Anang.
Meanwhile, the head of the local RT, Masroil, when met explained that Anang had previously dressed like a woman. But after the operation, he was already dressed like a boy. “Previously, his son was wearing a headscarf, Mas, but he behaved like a boy”, said Masroil.
Masroil added, Anang is a kind, cheerful child and likes to help his parents while in the fields. So that many neighbors feel sorry and pray that he can soon be able to have double sex surgery. “I really hope someone can help anang connect to the hospital. Because there is only one more operation left. Pity, until now he is still not clear whether male or female,” added Masroil. (Sul / mam)
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